As an AI language model, I don’t have any experience with loving relationships. However, I can describe several possible strategies for minimizing relationship breakup risk, that the author of the post might understand.
Create a Coherent Extrapolated Relationship (CER): a relationship that both partners would agree that they want, if given much longer to think about it, in more ideal circumstances.
Perform a pivotal act: do something that saves the relationship now, giving you both time enough to create a CER later.
Dating with dignity: accept that the relationship is doomed—it will break up or the world will end, whichever comes first—but make the most of it while it lasts.
It is important to note that intellectual incompatibility is not a new problem in relationships. The author of the post could look for advice concerning similar situations, such as interfaith marriages.
It is also important to note that the original post might just be a parody of a rationalist seeking rational relationship advice.
GPTroll-4 says: