I’d tentatively guess that even though your arguments are sound the likelihood to find a woman of the right kind there might be lower than elsewhere.
What do you consider to be “the right kind”? I think there are quite a few well educated people who do dance. It might be that you have stereotypes about who dances that aren’t accurate. But of course if you don’t want to dance I don’t want to talk you into it.
I especially don’t want to encourage you to put your chips on any one card.
I could come to the conclusion that matching expectations plays a large role and use e.g. okcupid as primary filter for matches. And then try to get a date with those.
I don’t think there anything wrong with going on okcupid and trying your luck. Writing a profile and writing a few messages isn’t going to cost too much time.
Optimizing a Okcupid profile and writing optimal messages to get a date is however not my idea of authentic human interaction. I consider online dating to be quite artificial.
One current idea it to take up part-time study on the local university.
If you enjoy being at university I don’t think there anything wrong at it. However I consider dancing to be more physical, provide better psychological benefits and be more social than being at university.
OK. I have to get off this dry mode. This will be read and a turn off.
If you want to reply to something privately, feel free to PM. It’s certainly a topic where there are things that are better left unsaid in public.
What do you consider to be “the right kind”? I think there are quite a few well educated people who do dance. It might be that you have stereotypes about who dances that aren’t accurate. But of course if you don’t want to dance I don’t want to talk you into it.
I especially don’t want to encourage you to put your chips on any one card.
I don’t think there anything wrong with going on okcupid and trying your luck. Writing a profile and writing a few messages isn’t going to cost too much time.
Optimizing a Okcupid profile and writing optimal messages to get a date is however not my idea of authentic human interaction. I consider online dating to be quite artificial.
If you enjoy being at university I don’t think there anything wrong at it. However I consider dancing to be more physical, provide better psychological benefits and be more social than being at university.
If you want to reply to something privately, feel free to PM. It’s certainly a topic where there are things that are better left unsaid in public.