But then Professor Quirrell had also seen Harry taught Occlumency, he had taught Harry how to lose… if the Defense Professor wanted to make some use of Harry Potter, it was a use that required a strengthened Harry Potter, not a weakened one. That was what it meant to be used by a friend, that they would want the use to make you stronger instead of weaker.
I don’t know about the parent, but personally I liked this line because it debunks the cached thought that “using” someone is always wrong. Humans use one another all the time for all sorts of things, from a grad student using his mentor to advance his career to an overworked executive using her goofy laid-back friends to keep her blood pressure down. People tend to only consider one very narrow and destructive meaning of the word “use”, and then come to the conclusion that you can’t have a genuine caring relationship with someone if you pursue it for personal benefit. The grad student can still admire and love his mentor even though the main point of that relationship is so he can get a PhD. If you do care about the person, you’d try to arrange it so that your use will help them too.
That’s one reading, I guess. Another reading is that this is the kind of line you might use to justify the narrow and destructive kind of using to yourself. Seems a little dangerous is all.
That’s true, and in this context it doesn’t seem like Harry was being entirely fair. I liked that line better the first time around, when Harry applied it to how Quirrell used him. He was wrong, but I thought it was interesting that he chose to view it in that light.
Because of what OtherHandle said, basically. Yes, it can be a dangerous and self-serving attitude that you use merely to rationalize your abuse of another person, but I also find there to be something refreshingly honest about it, at least if you’re open about it (which Harry admittedly wasn’t).
Reading that line caused me and a friend to have a very pleasant conversation of the ways in which we are going to use each other for our mutual benefit in the future. :)
Did you notice that from Quirrel’s perspective, that’s exactly what he has done to/with Harry? Killing Hermione had the effect of hardening Harry’s resolve, and removing some of his scrupels. For Quirrel that’s “stronger”.
My favorite line in this chapter.
Which calls back to this bit in Chapter 51:
Why?
I don’t know about the parent, but personally I liked this line because it debunks the cached thought that “using” someone is always wrong. Humans use one another all the time for all sorts of things, from a grad student using his mentor to advance his career to an overworked executive using her goofy laid-back friends to keep her blood pressure down. People tend to only consider one very narrow and destructive meaning of the word “use”, and then come to the conclusion that you can’t have a genuine caring relationship with someone if you pursue it for personal benefit. The grad student can still admire and love his mentor even though the main point of that relationship is so he can get a PhD. If you do care about the person, you’d try to arrange it so that your use will help them too.
That’s one reading, I guess. Another reading is that this is the kind of line you might use to justify the narrow and destructive kind of using to yourself. Seems a little dangerous is all.
That’s true, and in this context it doesn’t seem like Harry was being entirely fair. I liked that line better the first time around, when Harry applied it to how Quirrell used him. He was wrong, but I thought it was interesting that he chose to view it in that light.
Because of what OtherHandle said, basically. Yes, it can be a dangerous and self-serving attitude that you use merely to rationalize your abuse of another person, but I also find there to be something refreshingly honest about it, at least if you’re open about it (which Harry admittedly wasn’t).
Reading that line caused me and a friend to have a very pleasant conversation of the ways in which we are going to use each other for our mutual benefit in the future. :)
Did you notice that from Quirrel’s perspective, that’s exactly what he has done to/with Harry? Killing Hermione had the effect of hardening Harry’s resolve, and removing some of his scrupels. For Quirrel that’s “stronger”.
And not just obvious current scruples. Hermione is an external scruple-generator for Harry.