Keeping calm despite feeling strong emotions can be misinterpreted by others as not caring.
To some extent, the interpretation is arguably correct; if you personally suffer from something not working out, then you have a much greater incentive to actually ensure that it does work out. If a situation going bad would cause you so much pain that you can’t just walk out from it, then there’s a sense in which it’s correct to say that you do care more than if you could just choose to give up whenever.
To some extent, the interpretation is arguably correct; if you personally suffer from something not working out, then you have a much greater incentive to actually ensure that it does work out. If a situation going bad would cause you so much pain that you can’t just walk out from it, then there’s a sense in which it’s correct to say that you do care more than if you could just choose to give up whenever.