I feel like there’s something confused about this. Plenty of men are intentionally hot. Why does your analysis focus specifically on women? what warranted privileging that hypothesis?
that seems like it confuses the analysis though and some of these things seem like rationalizing being attracted to people in the first place. like, a lot of these things are real, but it sounds more like maybe the question is, under what conditions am I attracted to the people to whom I am attracted? and this advice all applies just as much to men.
I feel like there’s something confused about this. Plenty of men are intentionally hot. Why does your analysis focus specifically on women? what warranted privileging that hypothesis?
Probably because Putanumonit is straight. It’s not that mysterious.
that seems like it confuses the analysis though and some of these things seem like rationalizing being attracted to people in the first place. like, a lot of these things are real, but it sounds more like maybe the question is, under what conditions am I attracted to the people to whom I am attracted? and this advice all applies just as much to men.