And… this is hard to talk about because I feel like I constantly have to make sure what I’m saying doesn’t count as Clueless Male Cluelessly Defending The Patriarchy.
Don’t worry about it. Complaints about “Clueless Male Cluelessly Defending The Patriarchy” are mostly an excuse to enforce norms about things you can’t say.
Don’t worry about it. Complaints about “Clueless Male Cluelessly Defending The Patriarchy” are mostly an excuse to enforce norms about things you can’t say.
Complaints about “things you can’t say” are mostly defenses of extortionate strategies in social relations.