Ah, well I agree with that as the dominant failure mode but I think we are on the harder level of “there are opaque gestalt Be A Good Guy For Actualz that are hard to distill into rules, and, you need to successfully sus out ‘are they actually a good guy?’ without actually instead asking ‘do they vibe like a good guy?’”
(I don’t know that I believe that exactly for this context, but, I think that’s at least often a situation I find myself in)
Ah, well I agree with that as the dominant failure mode but I think we are on the harder level of “there are opaque gestalt Be A Good Guy For Actualz that are hard to distill into rules, and, you need to successfully sus out ‘are they actually a good guy?’ without actually instead asking ‘do they vibe like a good guy?’”
(I don’t know that I believe that exactly for this context, but, I think that’s at least often a situation I find myself in)