I hope you find someone! Remember not to just mindlessly write “I’m lonely and don’t make connections” into your self-image. Write it if you want to write it, of course, but don’t do it mindlessly. Alternatively, write “I’m personable and I do make connections” instead, or “I’m exploring and I’m keeping my eyes peeled for connections”. And remember to be appropriately skeptical of this “knowing/assuming” business… those are really two very different verbs, and it’d be silly to write anything unhappy into your self image on the basis of a proposition that you didn’t even decide whether you know it or assume it. Good luck!
I hope you find someone! Remember not to just mindlessly write “I’m lonely and don’t make connections” into your self-image. Write it if you want to write it, of course, but don’t do it mindlessly. Alternatively, write “I’m personable and I do make connections” instead, or “I’m exploring and I’m keeping my eyes peeled for connections”. And remember to be appropriately skeptical of this “knowing/assuming” business… those are really two very different verbs, and it’d be silly to write anything unhappy into your self image on the basis of a proposition that you didn’t even decide whether you know it or assume it. Good luck!