This is part of why I’m glad the conversation is unfolding as it is—probably not a lot of people will read literally every comment, but for anyone who’s confused, we have a clear record of where I was wrong and changed my mind, or where I was unclear and people raised confusions.
I think DA should be third or fourth, with obvious things that might come ahead of it being work, family, pre-existing strong friendships, romance, and lifelong core passions.
This is part of why I’m glad the conversation is unfolding as it is—probably not a lot of people will read literally every comment, but for anyone who’s confused, we have a clear record of where I was wrong and changed my mind, or where I was unclear and people raised confusions.
I think DA should be third or fourth, with obvious things that might come ahead of it being work, family, pre-existing strong friendships, romance, and lifelong core passions.