A simple reframe that helped jumpstart my creativity:
My cookie dough froze in the fridge, so I couldn’t pry it out of the bowl to carry with me to bake at a party. I tried to get it out, but didn’t succeed, and had basically resigned myself to schlepping the bowl on the metro.
But then I paused and posed the question to myself: “If something important depended on me getting this dough out, what would I try?”
I immediately covered the top of the bowl, ran the base under lukewarm to warm water, popped it out, wrapped it up, and went on my way.
I took the survey. Out of curiosity (too late to change now) what should I have answered if I’m not my father’s first child, but I’m the first child he had with my mom? (There are kids from my dad’s first marriage, but I didn’t grow up with them).
I went with “no older siblings” since I assumed this was a question about socialization (or maybe even about uterine environment) but not siring. But I’d like to know for next year.