Some things have permanent consequences (STDs) so I will never risk them (always condom).
How I see others who feel the same:
They exaggerate tiny risks to certainties because it’s easier than doing tradeoffs. They ignore the benefits.
Feels like for me:
The most attractive things are exclusive and competed for (expensive cars, hot women), so it’s smarter and friendlier to stick to no-cost alternatives (video games, porn).
How I see others:
By not even trying to get to Harvard or the Olympics, they’re not getting any real mastery of anything.
Feels like for me:
I learned basic facts about how the world works as a kid, made the smart choices, and think everyone else’s choices were dumb choices.
How I see others:
They feel the exact same way about me, no matter which decisions they made!
Sorry, can’t name any of the biases.
I’m not really sure this helps me, though. The intensity of “how it feels for me” feels too strong for any “that’s just a bias” to break through. Sometimes I just can’t make myself believe the two lines in the illusion are the same length. I’ve looked at them a hundred times and the one’s always longer.
What it feels like for me:
Some things have permanent consequences (STDs) so I will never risk them (always condom).
How I see others who feel the same:
They exaggerate tiny risks to certainties because it’s easier than doing tradeoffs. They ignore the benefits.
Feels like for me:
The most attractive things are exclusive and competed for (expensive cars, hot women), so it’s smarter and friendlier to stick to no-cost alternatives (video games, porn).
How I see others:
By not even trying to get to Harvard or the Olympics, they’re not getting any real mastery of anything.
Feels like for me:
I learned basic facts about how the world works as a kid, made the smart choices, and think everyone else’s choices were dumb choices.
How I see others:
They feel the exact same way about me, no matter which decisions they made!
Sorry, can’t name any of the biases.
I’m not really sure this helps me, though. The intensity of “how it feels for me” feels too strong for any “that’s just a bias” to break through. Sometimes I just can’t make myself believe the two lines in the illusion are the same length. I’ve looked at them a hundred times and the one’s always longer.