The dashed/inaccurate is more valuable than solid, but it’s not really the connection that’s the locus of inaccuracy.
If instead the self-model contained a diagram inside of it, then we could see that the connection self-model to planning is working fine, it’s the diagram inside self-model that is wrong.
There’s a valuable difference between two different kinds of counterarguments (that I encountered in Drescher’s Good and Real, but I presume it’s widely known):
To correct someone, it is not sufficient to offer an argument for the opposite conclusion. At that point you merely have an apparent paradox—two arguments for opposite conclusions. You must also point out where in their argument they went wrong.
If everyone followed this policy, it could break certain circular or repetitious disputes which are trapped in a cycle of: A offers argument for X, B offers argument for not-X, A repeats their argument more clearly or more loudly, B repeats their argument in turn, and so on.