I agree (given the negative score of your comment) that this is a bit out of topic, or that it should be reframed to fit the given problematic.
But I wanted to extend my sympathies to you. I lost 2 amazing grand-parents during the first lockdown. Couldn’t see them during the weeks they were ill. I was lucky to be able to get a few minutes with the coffins before they got cremated. That period was very rough for all of my family. Good luck, I hope you and your father get out of this safe and sound.