Yes, I agree with Ryan here. If you want to make good decisions to improve the world in an impartial way, then in your thought experiment, you should act like the operation happened and you were the real Chosen One.
If you want to be selfish in an indexical way, then things get confusing, but I think selfishness with indexical preferences is not a very coherent and reasonable concept.
I don’t know, maybe I phrased things wrongly. I’m in favor trying to do the all-things-condidered-best I can, and optimizing for expected values. And of course, you shouldn’t do things lime imagining you are sampled by importance-weighting, and then calcilate expected values: that would be double-updating.
All I am trying to say is that this is a useful perspeczive to take when deciding what should make you surprised and make you reevaluate your world model.