I agree fully with Hul-Gil. The main thing hindering the socially awkward is caring. Stop caring about your image and your social awkwardness goes away. When you truly reach a point of total apathy regarding how others see you—then nothing you do will be awkward. The difference between a person who’s random without caring how they’re perceived and the person who tries to be random but ends up being awkward is this: The latter really does care, but acts like he / she doesn’t. It shows.
Here’s my, perhaps slightly sadistic, bit of info: After that, if other people think what you’re doing is awkward (you won’t, because you won’t care), it becomes a means for your own entertainment.
I’ve come to the point where I take a strange, humorous pleasure in making others around me feel awkward. People who I don’t know, of course, feel strange. People who I do know think it’s hilarious.
Although one thing I still kind of struggle with is feelings about the opposite sex. I’m hoping to read more comments regarding it.
“Why is it that when a person of the opposite gender so much as pays attention to you, you think you have a crush on them?”
That’s just something I can’t seem to get over. I think to myself, “I know I don’t have a crush on her,” etc., etc., etc.—but it’s like a perpetual loneliness whispers unwanted daydreams of being with someone, regardless of how little a connection there is.
To those who seem to not like the manner in which XiXiDu is apologizing: If someone who genuinely thinks the sky is falling apologizes to you while still wearing their metal hat—then that’s the best you can possibly expect. To reject the apology until the hat is removed is…