What would you say to a child who wants to program paradise?
Well, I could give you a little more context? Maybe fit to someone who wanted to save the world and now drinks coffee with wine.
Some children want toys, but this one wanted to end human suffering.
For this boy, the world wasn’t a home. It was a labyrinth.
If you asked him:
- How are you?… he would interrupt, thinking:
- How well am I? Compared to my rich cousin?… or compared to a beggar?”...
Well, you know, that’s not how you make friends in kindergarten. Sometimes, this boy would cry at snack time:
- What’s your problem?
- The beggars…
- What beggars? Are you crazy!
He couldn’t explain.
To solve this, the boy invited beggars to eat at his house. Until one of them stole money from his mother’s purse.
He didn’t hit him. He sat down, wiped her hands, almost smiling and said with a look he couldn’t read:
“how you be safe with this money”
Well, I’m hungry. Could you give me something to eat?
I don’t steal my friends’ purses anymore.
I practice mindfulness, especially with the Pomodoro Technique (working for 25 minutes and resting for 5 minutes in mindfulness). I practice mindfulness to be able to rest well during breaks and return to work better. But I have difficulties with mindfulness because I keep ruminating.
I tried using the technique of labeling emotions, and it helped a little at first. But now it’s like saying “I’m irritated” and detailing the feeling, but it seems to only make me ruminate more: “Why should I be irritated?” “Should I be less irritated?” “How can I be less irritated?”
Considering my difficulty with mindfulness and the technique of labeling emotions, I speculate that a considerable reason for my mind ruminating is because it doesn’t know if it’s worth the effort to solve the problem.
You know? When a system doesn’t have a stopping criterion, it doesn’t know if it’s worth solving now, too complex for the moment, or if it has already solved enough to test? It’s as if my mind doesn’t know whether it’s worth investing in solving it or if it’s better to file it away for now.
So, I speculate that asking myself some questions, a pre-meditation, like the 5 minutes at the end of a 25-minute Pomodoro, would allow me to align myself enough to improve my mindfulness practice; perhaps my mind would stop searching for solutions for a moment.
Could I set up experiments and measure how much a mindfullness to focus analising physical EEG waves?Where does my reasoning break down? Has anyone tried something like this?