(Maybe this point isn’t particularly important to the main discussion. I can’t tell, honestly!)
Yeah I think it’s an irrelevant tangent where we’re describing the same underlying process a bit differently, not really disagreeing.
Frankly, I think that it’s not as hard as some people make it out to be, to tell when it is necessary to tell the truth and when one should instead lie. Mostly, the right answer is obvious to everyone, and the debates, such as they are, mostly boil down to people trying to justify things that they know perfectly well cannot be justified.
… the arguments most often concern whether it’s permissible to lie. Note: not, “is it obligatory to tell the truth, or is it obligatory to lie”—but “is it obligatory to tell the truth, or do I have no obligation here and can I just lie”. I think that this is very telling. And what it tells us (with imperfect but nevertheless non-trivial certainty) is that the person asking the question, or making the argument against the obligation, knows perfectly well what the real—which is to say, moral—answer is. Yes, the right thing to do is to tell the truth.
I think I disagree with this framing. In my model of the sort of person who asks that, they’re sometimes selfish-but-honourable people who have noticed telling the truth ends badly for them and will do it if it is an obligation but would prefer to help themselves otherwise, but they are just as often altruistic-and-honourable people who have noticed telling the truth ends badly for everyone and are trying to convince themselves it’s okay to do the thing that will actually help. There are also selfish-but-cowardly people who just care if they’ll be socially punished for lying, or selfish-and-cruel people chewing at the bit to punish someone else for it, and similar, but moral arguments don’t move to them either way so it doesn’t matter.
More strongly I disagree because I think a lot of people have harmed themselves or their altruistic causes by failing to correctly determine where the line is, either lying when they shouldn’t or not lying when they should, and it is too the communities shame that we haven’t been more help with illuminating how to tell those cases apart. If smart hardworking people are getting it wrong so often, you can’t just say the task is easy.
If you want to try to put together a complete list of such rules, that’s certainly a project, and I may even contribute to it, but there’s not much point in expecting this to be a definitively completable task. We’re fitting a curve to the data provided by our values, which cannot be losslessly compressed.
This is in total a fair response. I am not sure I can say that you have changed my mind without more detail and I’m not going to take down my original post (as long as there isn’t a better post to take its place) because it’s still I think directionally correct but thank you for your words.
Yeah I think it’s an irrelevant tangent where we’re describing the same underlying process a bit differently, not really disagreeing.
I think I disagree with this framing. In my model of the sort of person who asks that, they’re sometimes selfish-but-honourable people who have noticed telling the truth ends badly for them and will do it if it is an obligation but would prefer to help themselves otherwise, but they are just as often altruistic-and-honourable people who have noticed telling the truth ends badly for everyone and are trying to convince themselves it’s okay to do the thing that will actually help. There are also selfish-but-cowardly people who just care if they’ll be socially punished for lying, or selfish-and-cruel people chewing at the bit to punish someone else for it, and similar, but moral arguments don’t move to them either way so it doesn’t matter.
More strongly I disagree because I think a lot of people have harmed themselves or their altruistic causes by failing to correctly determine where the line is, either lying when they shouldn’t or not lying when they should, and it is too the communities shame that we haven’t been more help with illuminating how to tell those cases apart. If smart hardworking people are getting it wrong so often, you can’t just say the task is easy.
This is in total a fair response. I am not sure I can say that you have changed my mind without more detail and I’m not going to take down my original post (as long as there isn’t a better post to take its place) because it’s still I think directionally correct but thank you for your words.