I’m sorry that your life has come to a point where you might feel like adopting a fake personality and regularly deceiving those around you is how to be happy and get what you want. It’s almost impossible to deliver good advice to a stranger over the internet, but I hope that one day you can find joy and fulfillment in being yourself.
For my part, I didn’t realise it became so heavily downvoted, but I did not mean it at all in an accusatory or moralizing manner. I also, upon reflection, don’t regret posting it.
I’m sorry that your life has come to a point where you might feel like adopting a fake personality and regularly deceiving those around you is how to be happy and get what you want. It’s almost impossible to deliver good advice to a stranger over the internet, but I hope that one day you can find joy and fulfillment in being yourself.
This was heavily downvoted and the tone is in fact off but I think there is a little sliver of truth to it.
For my part, I didn’t realise it became so heavily downvoted, but I did not mean it at all in an accusatory or moralizing manner. I also, upon reflection, don’t regret posting it.