He’s focusing on what get you laid the most You’re focused on how do most women behave
I think you can both be right
There’s a fairly small percent of women who would have sex fairly quickly, not tiny but far less than most
Among that percent it’s very likely that a high percent do make eye contact easily and it does lead to something, because they are on some level looking or open for that
It’s a self-selection factor that won’t show up in your stats
I think a lot of this is crossed wires
He’s focusing on what get you laid the most You’re focused on how do most women behave
I think you can both be right
There’s a fairly small percent of women who would have sex fairly quickly, not tiny but far less than most
Among that percent it’s very likely that a high percent do make eye contact easily and it does lead to something, because they are on some level looking or open for that
It’s a self-selection factor that won’t show up in your stats
I also believe that attractiveness is probably more important than you’re giving it credit for
But that it does need to be paired with broadly good social / conversation skill, and I don’t think it’s a hack to just be good looking by itself
I do think that most men care more about what you’re describing than what he is describing