It does not only mean the things Alexander pointed us to last time, like 62% of singles being on zero dating apps, and a majority of singles having gone on zero dates in the past year, and a large majority not actively looking for a relationship.
Maybe this does not apply to the Bay Area, but I find worth saying that if you live in the average town, being on a dating app comes with some social stigma attached, for both genders (much less than actively paying sex workers, I suppose, but still). I am on zero dating apps, but I’m pretty sure that my mother would scold me forever should I ever try that. Anyway, this has nothing to with the actual reason I’m not on dating apps, which is that I don’t want a relationship in the first place (not in the usual “I stopped trying” sense, I literally mean “I never tried because I’m very happy being left alone”… can we please acknowledge that “no relationships” could be an actual preference for some people?)
Maybe this does not apply to the Bay Area, but I find worth saying that if you live in the average town, being on a dating app comes with some social stigma attached, for both genders (much less than actively paying sex workers, I suppose, but still). I am on zero dating apps, but I’m pretty sure that my mother would scold me forever should I ever try that. Anyway, this has nothing to with the actual reason I’m not on dating apps, which is that I don’t want a relationship in the first place (not in the usual “I stopped trying” sense, I literally mean “I never tried because I’m very happy being left alone”… can we please acknowledge that “no relationships” could be an actual preference for some people?)