Harry’s parents aren’t perfect, and neither is Harry’s reasoning unassailable, but to the extent that the diagnostic criteria for having one’s values warped by a narcissistic parent can be applied to Harry, I think that this mainly demonstrates that it’s simply too easy to fit those diagnostic criteria to situations where they don’t apply, much like a technique for determining if mythological figures are solar deities, which can be applied equally well to the professor who devised it.
Harry’s parents aren’t perfect, and neither is Harry’s reasoning unassailable, but to the extent that the diagnostic criteria for having one’s values warped by a narcissistic parent can be applied to Harry, I think that this mainly demonstrates that it’s simply too easy to fit those diagnostic criteria to situations where they don’t apply, much like a technique for determining if mythological figures are solar deities, which can be applied equally well to the professor who devised it.