It sounds like you’re describing how to recognize a successful relationship. At the “OMG I don’t know if s/he likes me” stage, body language is more likely to be tense and stilted, there will be blushing, and stammering, and painful silences, and all the general awkwardness...
By the time of “very open body language in private situations” all the important questions have already been answered.
Those particular symptoms, while obvious from the outside perspective, are pretty much undetectable from the inside perspective, because they’re the result of two people who are paying more attention to how they are coming off than they are to the other person. Embarrassment, nervousness, fear, uncertainty. These dispel themselves with a little bit of awareness; if, for example, the other party embarrasses themselves, and you’re aware of it, it’s very easy to rectify by sharing an embarrassing story of your own—and most people will do this automatically. If you embarrass yourself—well, again, you’re worrying too much about how you come off, and not paying enough attention to how the other person is responding.
It sounds like you’re describing how to recognize a successful relationship. At the “OMG I don’t know if s/he likes me” stage, body language is more likely to be tense and stilted, there will be blushing, and stammering, and painful silences, and all the general awkwardness...
By the time of “very open body language in private situations” all the important questions have already been answered.
Those particular symptoms, while obvious from the outside perspective, are pretty much undetectable from the inside perspective, because they’re the result of two people who are paying more attention to how they are coming off than they are to the other person. Embarrassment, nervousness, fear, uncertainty. These dispel themselves with a little bit of awareness; if, for example, the other party embarrasses themselves, and you’re aware of it, it’s very easy to rectify by sharing an embarrassing story of your own—and most people will do this automatically. If you embarrass yourself—well, again, you’re worrying too much about how you come off, and not paying enough attention to how the other person is responding.