Perhaps the three options should be something like “Actively looking for new relationship partners”, “Open to new relationship partners, but not actively looking” and “Not open to new relationship partners”.
Excellent.
Probably not, Consequentialism is fundamentally concerned with consequences (hence the name), which makes it and deontology mutually exclusive.
So consequentialism be it (as I voted in the last two surveys).
Excellent.
So consequentialism be it (as I voted in the last two surveys).