For clarity, I wouldn’t describe it as “empathy makes me feel disgust”, I would describe it as “attempts to be empathetic make me feel disgust, which gets in the way of being empathetic”.
Empathy is neither feeling kindness nor disgust, empathy is feeling (not necessarily understanding) what the other person feels. Sometimes understanding or being kind can help in being empathetic, but neither is a requirement, strictly speaking.
Disgust can be empathetic, if the other is also disgusted. Otherwise it is something other than empathy.
For clarity, I wouldn’t describe it as “empathy makes me feel disgust”, I would describe it as “attempts to be empathetic make me feel disgust, which gets in the way of being empathetic”.
Empathy is neither feeling kindness nor disgust, empathy is feeling (not necessarily understanding) what the other person feels. Sometimes understanding or being kind can help in being empathetic, but neither is a requirement, strictly speaking.
Disgust can be empathetic, if the other is also disgusted. Otherwise it is something other than empathy.