I find it valuable to know what impressions other people had themselves; it only becomes tone-policing when you worry loudly about what impressions other people ‘might’ have. (If one is worried about how it looks to say so publicly, one could always just DM me (though I might not respond).)
I find it valuable to know what impressions other people had themselves; it only becomes tone-policing when you worry loudly about what impressions other people ‘might’ have. (If one is worried about how it looks to say so publicly, one could always just DM me (though I might not respond).)