The funny thing is that I don’t fear being rejected, but when I am I feel bad. But I normally fail to predict that I will feel bad. This can be harmful when you don’t execute the proper emotional handling because you did not anticipate the emotions correctly.
The same happens when I turn down people. I might feel bad afterward. Somehow my brain did not really learn to anticipate my emotions, maybe because it did not get enough training data, as I am kind of a loner.
The funny thing is that I don’t fear being rejected, but when I am I feel bad. But I normally fail to predict that I will feel bad. This can be harmful when you don’t execute the proper emotional handling because you did not anticipate the emotions correctly.
The same happens when I turn down people. I might feel bad afterward. Somehow my brain did not really learn to anticipate my emotions, maybe because it did not get enough training data, as I am kind of a loner.