Not romantic, fun, sexy, etc to just ask. Much better when it’s as close to a dance as possible, as much subtley as can be expected is involved.
This is certainly a filter, but not consciously. Consiously this allows the woman to feel good about herself and the whole interaction.
(Not that being straightforward is bad or can’t be exciting—though it is usually flatter)
Not romantic, fun, sexy, etc to just ask. Much better when it’s as close to a dance as possible, as much subtley as can be expected is involved.
This is certainly a filter, but not consciously. Consiously this allows the woman to feel good about herself and the whole interaction.
(Not that being straightforward is bad or can’t be exciting—though it is usually flatter)