but some is created with the full knowledge it will harm its carriers
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I see friends making stupid decisions based on them that end up wrecking their lives
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I hate the pretty lies because my belief in them was rewarded by stagnation, blindness and pain.
Ok, now we’re getting closer. I sympathize with you, just as I try to sympathize with everyone who says they’ve been hurt or fucked over or betrayed. And I would feel wrong it I turned a friend away with some dismissive/inconsiderate talk.
However, could you please admit that while your hurtful experience might bring you closer to the situation emotionally, it certainly introduces some amount of bias and one-sidedness to your perception?
However, could you please admit that while your hurtful experience might bring you closer to the situation emotionally, it certainly introduces some amount of bias and one-sidedness to your perception?
Yes of course, it is why I made this post recently. People should be aware of the possibility of self-serving rationalizations by people advocating changes in sexual or social norms.
Konk, can you make a list of all the pretty lies, their consequences, the true facts, and the other things that don’t get condemned? I’m sure Roissy or someone has such a list also, but I’d like to see you restate it.
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Ok, now we’re getting closer. I sympathize with you, just as I try to sympathize with everyone who says they’ve been hurt or fucked over or betrayed. And I would feel wrong it I turned a friend away with some dismissive/inconsiderate talk.
However, could you please admit that while your hurtful experience might bring you closer to the situation emotionally, it certainly introduces some amount of bias and one-sidedness to your perception?
Yes of course, it is why I made this post recently. People should be aware of the possibility of self-serving rationalizations by people advocating changes in sexual or social norms.
Konk, can you make a list of all the pretty lies, their consequences, the true facts, and the other things that don’t get condemned? I’m sure Roissy or someone has such a list also, but I’d like to see you restate it.