Another dimension to that analogy is that “visual Looking” can be systematically taught. Art schools do that for generation after generation of students. They provide (to borrow another analogy) the recipe, the cooking instructions, examples of well-made and ill-made cakes, and give critiques of the students’ work. There are books and videos showing you how to do these things. There is no mystery about how to learn “visual Looking”.
None of which seems to be available for Valentine’s “Looking”.
Another dimension to that analogy is that “visual Looking” can be systematically taught. Art schools do that for generation after generation of students. They provide (to borrow another analogy) the recipe, the cooking instructions, examples of well-made and ill-made cakes, and give critiques of the students’ work. There are books and videos showing you how to do these things. There is no mystery about how to learn “visual Looking”.
None of which seems to be available for Valentine’s “Looking”.