I went to boarding school, and my heuristic after a number of years there was: Living with people you like is awesome. Living with people you don’t like is terrible. And living with people you think are okay… is also terrible.
I think it’s pretty rough to move in with people you don’t know. At my house we do a 2 month probationary period, after which we all vote on the person, and if the score isn’t high enough we don’t offer them full time.
I went to boarding school, and my heuristic after a number of years there was: Living with people you like is awesome. Living with people you don’t like is terrible. And living with people you think are okay… is also terrible.
I think it’s pretty rough to move in with people you don’t know. At my house we do a 2 month probationary period, after which we all vote on the person, and if the score isn’t high enough we don’t offer them full time.