Yeah, (poor) context isolation is is a recurring theme I’ve observed in my discussions and debates. Here’s a typical scenario:
There’s an original topic, X. Then we talk back and forth about it for a bit: C1, D1, C2, D2, C3, D3, C4, D4. The C messages are me and D is the other guy.
Then I write a reply, C5, about a specific detail in D4. Often I quote the exact thing I’m replying to or explain what I’m doing (e.g. a statement like “I disagree with A because B” where A was something said in D4.).
Then the person writes a reply (more of a non sequitur from my pov) about X.
People routinely try to jump the conversation back to the original context/topic. And they make ongoing attempts to interpret things I say in relation to X. Whatever I say, they often try to jump to conclusions about my position on X from it.
I find it very hard to get people to stop doing this. I’ve had little success even with explicit topic shifts like “I think you’re making a discussion methodology mistake, and talking about X won’t be productive until we get on the same page about how to discuss.”
Another example of poor context isolation is when I give a toy example that’d be trivial to replace with a different toy example, but they start getting hung up on specific details of the example chosen. Sometimes I make the example intentionally unrealistic and simple because I want it to clearly be a toy example and I want to get rid of lots of typical context, but then they get hung up specifically on how unrealistic it is.
Another common example is when I compare X and Y regarding trait Z, and people get hung up b/c of how X and Y compare in general. Me: X and Y are the same re Z. Them: X and Y aren’t similar!
I think Question-Ignoring Discussion Pattern is related, too. It’s a recurring pattern where people don’t give direct responses to the thing one just said.
And thanks for the link. It makes sense to me and I think social dynamics ideas are some of the ones most often coupled/contextualized. I think it’s really important to be capable of thinking about things from multiple perspectives/frameworks, but most people really just have the one way of thinking (and have enough trouble with that), and for most people their one way has a lot of social norms built into it (because they live in society – you need 2+ thinking modes in order for it to make sense to have one without social norms, otherwise you don’t have a way to get along with people. Some people compromise and build fewer social norms into their way of thinking because that’s easier than learning multiple separate ways to think).