I mostly ask myself the following question whenever I meet somebody with crazy beliefs: Is he/she going to act on those beliefs with any kind of significant consequences?
If the answer is No, then I usually completely ignore the subject and try to keep it out of all future conversations.
If the answer is Yes, then it’s more complicated. I then try to estimate the following: a) How much I care? This includes estimates of what is the magnitude of the consequences of their action, how close the person is to me,etc. b) How likely is it that anything I say would have an affect on their behavior? c) Is it likely to backfire? For example, they might take offense at their beliefs being challenged.
Usually, the result of estimating these variables is that I keep my mouth shut. I usually try much harder if the person is someone very close to me or if it affects me directly. It’s probably not the best strategy for propagating rationality, but it kind of works out for me. After being around very religious people for a long time, I’ve kinda become pretty good at it.
I mostly ask myself the following question whenever I meet somebody with crazy beliefs: Is he/she going to act on those beliefs with any kind of significant consequences?
I don’t actually know that many people who would act on a lot of their crazier beliefs. I’m sure that they exist, but most people I’ve met through church are pretty solidly compartmentalized. It’s a bit less so for the people who converted as adults into the rather more evangelical/fundamentalist Pentecostal church. But even then, the ‘crazy things’ that they do are not especially weird. Giving large amounts to charity...throwing aside their plans of the moment to go on volunteer aid trips...those are things I wish I could do more!
Mainly because I’m a really, really non-spontaneous person. I do give fairly large amounts to charity, close to 10% of my monthly income right now, but to be honest, I like my routine and I have a hard time departing for it, and taking a semester off to go build schools in Africa or something would be very much outside of my routine, would set me back by a year in my program, etc, etc. My best hope is to plan, non-spontaneously, to do things like that. For example, once I’m graduated as a nurse, I’ll feel much more secure moving somewhere for, say, a year to do volunteer work… I’ll be able to settle in, get to know people, establish a routine, and in general set up the conditions that work for me to enjoy myself.
Are there any organizations that do that? i.e. you can donate money and it will be used to pay the employees of a company in Africa who build houses for their communities? Because if that doesn’t exist, someone should make it exist...
I mostly ask myself the following question whenever I meet somebody with crazy beliefs: Is he/she going to act on those beliefs with any kind of significant consequences?
If the answer is No, then I usually completely ignore the subject and try to keep it out of all future conversations.
If the answer is Yes, then it’s more complicated. I then try to estimate the following:
a) How much I care? This includes estimates of what is the magnitude of the consequences of their action, how close the person is to me,etc.
b) How likely is it that anything I say would have an affect on their behavior?
c) Is it likely to backfire? For example, they might take offense at their beliefs being challenged.
Usually, the result of estimating these variables is that I keep my mouth shut. I usually try much harder if the person is someone very close to me or if it affects me directly. It’s probably not the best strategy for propagating rationality, but it kind of works out for me. After being around very religious people for a long time, I’ve kinda become pretty good at it.
I don’t actually know that many people who would act on a lot of their crazier beliefs. I’m sure that they exist, but most people I’ve met through church are pretty solidly compartmentalized. It’s a bit less so for the people who converted as adults into the rather more evangelical/fundamentalist Pentecostal church. But even then, the ‘crazy things’ that they do are not especially weird. Giving large amounts to charity...throwing aside their plans of the moment to go on volunteer aid trips...those are things I wish I could do more!
I’m curious: why don’t you?
Mainly because I’m a really, really non-spontaneous person. I do give fairly large amounts to charity, close to 10% of my monthly income right now, but to be honest, I like my routine and I have a hard time departing for it, and taking a semester off to go build schools in Africa or something would be very much outside of my routine, would set me back by a year in my program, etc, etc. My best hope is to plan, non-spontaneously, to do things like that. For example, once I’m graduated as a nurse, I’ll feel much more secure moving somewhere for, say, a year to do volunteer work… I’ll be able to settle in, get to know people, establish a routine, and in general set up the conditions that work for me to enjoy myself.
Well, don’t feel bad about not going to Africa to build houses! Paying Africans to build houses in Africa is better in almost every way.
Are there any organizations that do that? i.e. you can donate money and it will be used to pay the employees of a company in Africa who build houses for their communities? Because if that doesn’t exist, someone should make it exist...