I’m pretty surprised at Guzey’s tone in responding; even this last response starting with an apology makes arguments that suggest argument motivated by some sort of psychological trigger rather than rational consideration.
Maybe better to assume good intentions? (And even if someone is biased or motivated by “impure” motives, we try to turn this into a high quality discussion if we can?)
Fair point, although I wasn’t assuming any bad intentions, more like a hard-to-explain emotional intensity that seemed out of character for someone whose writing I am familiar with. But perhaps expressing my genuine surprise was not constructive—thanks. I removed this intro from my post.
I think that if you ask anyone who knows me in-person they will tell you that I’m an unusually emotionally intensive person. My writing is also usually very emotionally intense but it tend to go through getting feedback from like 20 people who tell me to remove all of the excessive language and to tone it down before publication, so it ends up sounding normal. Comment do not go through this kind of process.
Maybe better to assume good intentions? (And even if someone is biased or motivated by “impure” motives, we try to turn this into a high quality discussion if we can?)
Fair point, although I wasn’t assuming any bad intentions, more like a hard-to-explain emotional intensity that seemed out of character for someone whose writing I am familiar with. But perhaps expressing my genuine surprise was not constructive—thanks. I removed this intro from my post.
I think that if you ask anyone who knows me in-person they will tell you that I’m an unusually emotionally intensive person. My writing is also usually very emotionally intense but it tend to go through getting feedback from like 20 people who tell me to remove all of the excessive language and to tone it down before publication, so it ends up sounding normal. Comment do not go through this kind of process.