My sister used to be a teacher in a special education school. She would sometimes let some kids do things that other kids weren’t allowed to do; a kid particularly prone to some kind of negative reaction to an otherwise mandatory activity might be allowed not to participate (I don’t recall exactly). When the other kids protested that it wasn’t fair, she would reply: “fair is when everyone gets what they need, not when everyone gets the same.” Not totally satisfactory, but in my mind not totally bogus either. How hungry each person is does have some bearing on what’s a fair division of the pie.
My sister used to be a teacher in a special education school. She would sometimes let some kids do things that other kids weren’t allowed to do; a kid particularly prone to some kind of negative reaction to an otherwise mandatory activity might be allowed not to participate (I don’t recall exactly). When the other kids protested that it wasn’t fair, she would reply: “fair is when everyone gets what they need, not when everyone gets the same.” Not totally satisfactory, but in my mind not totally bogus either. How hungry each person is does have some bearing on what’s a fair division of the pie.