Another option on two is to go into some kind of preservation instead of total death forever. then you can write instructions on when to wake you up (if X person asks, if X event happens, in X years, etc..). you still miss out on some stuff, but not literally everything.
The second benefit is that for people who stayed it’s not like you died and they’ll never be able to interact with you again, you just took a really long vacation :)
Another option on two is to go into some kind of preservation instead of total death forever. then you can write instructions on when to wake you up (if X person asks, if X event happens, in X years, etc..). you still miss out on some stuff, but not literally everything.
The second benefit is that for people who stayed it’s not like you died and they’ll never be able to interact with you again, you just took a really long vacation :)