I think you are missing out on a key second half to this story, which would make your motivational take at the end (“uh.. feel good about yourself for trying or something?”) a lot stronger:
When you go to a ski resort, or a gym, or etc, it’s not JUST that you only see the people who ski, work out, etc, while not seeing the 90% who don’t do that activity. You see people WEIGHTED by the AMOUNT OF TIME they spend doing that activity, which skews heavily towards the most intense practitioners.
Yeah I think this is one of the most important corollaries of what I call “everyday anthropics” reasoning.
Yeah I think this is one of the most important corollaries of what I call “everyday anthropics” reasoning.