Absolutely not. From my experience, not at all. I have turned down sex with someone I’d been on a date with, found attractive, and was generally interested in because they were, that day, boring me enough that the attraction couldn’t stick.
Other things like kinks and fantasies can get more flexible far easier than the appeal of a partner. Conversely, an intellectually appealing partner makes everything else more flexible, including beauty standards and what seems hot.
Absolutely not. From my experience, not at all. I have turned down sex with someone I’d been on a date with, found attractive, and was generally interested in because they were, that day, boring me enough that the attraction couldn’t stick.
Other things like kinks and fantasies can get more flexible far easier than the appeal of a partner. Conversely, an intellectually appealing partner makes everything else more flexible, including beauty standards and what seems hot.