This. Asking people to abandon their culture and adopt yours is likely to provoke hostility just on pattern matching. Meeting halfway is much more likely to succeed; even if you completely fail at guessing, it’ll show that you actually need an ask paradigm and aren’t being unfair in demanding it.
This. Asking people to abandon their culture and adopt yours is likely to provoke hostility just on pattern matching. Meeting halfway is much more likely to succeed; even if you completely fail at guessing, it’ll show that you actually need an ask paradigm and aren’t being unfair in demanding it.