To me it seems that change is difficult and frustratingly slow, but possible. Over time, slow changes accumulate.
The traits that don’t change, do they still have the same intensity? I have some bad traits that used to be worse in the past.
Your behavior is a function of your traits and your environment. Even if the traits are (at least in short term) fixed, perhaps you could change something about your environment? If you forget things, take notes, or set up dozen alarms in your smartphone. Buy tools that encourage you to do the right thing, and put them in a visible place in your room. Also, people you meet regularly are like live reminders (of things they typically do or talk about). Sometimes just hanging out with different people has a big impact on how you behave.
For problems with food, have you tried Soylent? This outsources the questions of “how much?” and “what?”.
Taking care of housework sounds like a good thing.
To me it seems that change is difficult and frustratingly slow, but possible. Over time, slow changes accumulate.
The traits that don’t change, do they still have the same intensity? I have some bad traits that used to be worse in the past.
Your behavior is a function of your traits and your environment. Even if the traits are (at least in short term) fixed, perhaps you could change something about your environment? If you forget things, take notes, or set up dozen alarms in your smartphone. Buy tools that encourage you to do the right thing, and put them in a visible place in your room. Also, people you meet regularly are like live reminders (of things they typically do or talk about). Sometimes just hanging out with different people has a big impact on how you behave.
For problems with food, have you tried Soylent? This outsources the questions of “how much?” and “what?”.
Taking care of housework sounds like a good thing.