For practical purposes, the onus should be on whoever has the ability to deal with it. If someone unknowingly does something you don’t like, and you want them to stop, telling them is say more useful to both of you, regardless of your views on “victim blaming”
For practical purposes, the onus should be on whoever has the ability to deal with it. If someone unknowingly does something you don’t like, and you want them to stop, telling them is say more useful to both of you, regardless of your views on “victim blaming”