Some additional hurdles: “I think your ontology is not well adapted for this issue” sounds a lot like “I think you are wrong”, and possibly also “I think you are stupid”. Ontologies are tied into value sets very deeply, and so attempts to excavate the assumptions behind ontologies often resemble socratic interrogations. The result (when done without sufficient emotional openness and kindness) is a deeply uncomfortable experience that feels like someone trying to metaphysically trip you up and then disassemble you.
Some additional hurdles: “I think your ontology is not well adapted for this issue” sounds a lot like “I think you are wrong”, and possibly also “I think you are stupid”. Ontologies are tied into value sets very deeply, and so attempts to excavate the assumptions behind ontologies often resemble socratic interrogations. The result (when done without sufficient emotional openness and kindness) is a deeply uncomfortable experience that feels like someone trying to metaphysically trip you up and then disassemble you.