Yet in my admittedly-limited experience of actual bars and clubs, I basically never see such matching?
Personal experience—in uni, went to bars/clubs, I was generally pretty incompetent at the flirting thing, but danced with a bunch of girls, got numbers and didn’t really know what to do after that.
A handsome, charismatic friend of mine got together with a number of women, went home with a few, etc.
Personal experience—in uni, went to bars/clubs, I was generally pretty incompetent at the flirting thing, but danced with a bunch of girls, got numbers and didn’t really know what to do after that.
A handsome, charismatic friend of mine got together with a number of women, went home with a few, etc.
As did a couple other friends.
Location: scotland, dundee
Years: 2021-2022
also, was pretty common from a lot of friends stories to get with people after meeting them in the club. not relationships though
also, clubs in general are very animalistic, eq driven places that i think most rats/lesswrong users dont understand