In model flirting is about showing that you are paying attention. You say things that you could only pick up if you pay close attention to me and what I say. It’s like a cryptographic proof certificate, showing that you think that I am important enough to pay attention to continuously. Usually this is coupled with an optimization process of using that knowledge to make me feel good, e.g. given a compliment that actually tracks reality in a way I care about.
It’s more general than just showing sexual interest I think.
In model flirting is about showing that you are paying attention. You say things that you could only pick up if you pay close attention to me and what I say. It’s like a cryptographic proof certificate, showing that you think that I am important enough to pay attention to continuously. Usually this is coupled with an optimization process of using that knowledge to make me feel good, e.g. given a compliment that actually tracks reality in a way I care about.
It’s more general than just showing sexual interest I think.