It’s better (although it still fails to reject an argument on its merits, or lack thereof), but I’m not sure the term can really be rehabilitated in such a manner. First, the connotation has already been established among too many people, and it’s bad, and second, most of those I’ve encountered who use that term write it as `splaining.
It comes across less as addressing a problem and more as hiding it. It becomes a code word—whitewashing the explicit sexism, but maintaining the implicit.
The other problem is that when a problem has become a topic of public discussion, people say the same things again and again. It’s not just the other side who uses bingo cards.
(“Bingo cards” is a term used to deride your opponents saying the usual things.)
At least some feminists today prefer the term “splaining”, precisely because the behavior isn’t unique to men.
It’s better (although it still fails to reject an argument on its merits, or lack thereof), but I’m not sure the term can really be rehabilitated in such a manner. First, the connotation has already been established among too many people, and it’s bad, and second, most of those I’ve encountered who use that term write it as `splaining.
It comes across less as addressing a problem and more as hiding it. It becomes a code word—whitewashing the explicit sexism, but maintaining the implicit.
The other problem is that when a problem has become a topic of public discussion, people say the same things again and again. It’s not just the other side who uses bingo cards.
(“Bingo cards” is a term used to deride your opponents saying the usual things.)