William’s recent & excellent (& totally spoiling, don’t read if you haven’t read HPMOR) review of HPMOR comes to mind. Here’s his summary of what the story is about (vague-but-meaningful spoilers):
He gets to explain the thing he’s missing in life in Chapter 6:
“I know it doesn’t sound like much,” Harry defended. “But it was just one of those critical life moments, you see? I mean, I knew that not thinking about something doesn’t stop it from happening, I knew that, but I could see that Mum really thought that way.” Harry stopped, struggling with the anger that was starting to rise up again when he thought about it. “She wouldn’t listen. I tried to tell her, I begged her not to send me out, and she laughed it off. Everything I said, she treated like some sort of big joke...” Harry forced the black rage back down again. “That’s when I realised that everyone who was supposed to protect me was actually crazy, and that they wouldn’t listen to me no matter how much I begged them, and that I couldn’t ever rely on them to get anything right.” Sometimes good intentions weren’t enough, sometimes you had to be sane...
And later in the same chapter:
I’ve been isolated my whole life. Maybe that has some of the same effects as being locked in a cellar. And I’m too intelligent to look up to my parents the way that children are designed to do. My parents love me, but they don’t feel obliged to respond to reason, and sometimes I feel like they’re the children—children who won’t listen and have absolute authority over my whole existence.
What he wants is to have someone he can look up to, the way a child “is designed to” look up to his parents. This is his wish.
And, because this is the kind of story this is, the wish is granted by the devil.
Similarly, the feeling I occasionally have interacting with many people in the world is “they are insane”. In your post you talk about a software dev you met who has only ever used an LLM ~once. Not having bothered to use LLMs a bunch is, like, not being involved in the most important thing happening in the world. We invented new intelligences (not quite life forms, but still!) and they’re ~freely available to interact with! You can use them to do useful stuff! They’re still getting smarter! A software dev can use them for their job!
I want boundaries between me and people that out of touch with the real world. I don’t particularly trust their judgment or want them to have power over my life or to have them involved in my life. And that’s a simplification, also they are here and we all have to work something out.
Now, are rationalists reliably sane? Nope. But sometimes they are. A momentary lapse into reason can occur, and sometimes for an extended time, like hours or months or even years, and that’s exciting.
And also the culture is way better. Around these parts, it is odd not to be in touch enough with reality to have not used LLMs (or at least, if you haven’t done so, then you’ll have some good account of why, rather than it having not seemed worth trying). So the group-level incentives are toward being in touch with reality. If someone writes up an argument that you’re screwing up in some behavior or key part of your life, the expected thing to do is to respond with a counterargument, not dismiss them for being impolite. This is a force toward engaging with reality that most people do not experience.
I don’t know quite where I’m going, but felt an impulse to express some of this attitude toward most people vs rationalist.
Thanks for writing the post!
William’s recent & excellent (& totally spoiling, don’t read if you haven’t read HPMOR) review of HPMOR comes to mind. Here’s his summary of what the story is about (vague-but-meaningful spoilers):
Similarly, the feeling I occasionally have interacting with many people in the world is “they are insane”. In your post you talk about a software dev you met who has only ever used an LLM ~once. Not having bothered to use LLMs a bunch is, like, not being involved in the most important thing happening in the world. We invented new intelligences (not quite life forms, but still!) and they’re ~freely available to interact with! You can use them to do useful stuff! They’re still getting smarter! A software dev can use them for their job!
I want boundaries between me and people that out of touch with the real world. I don’t particularly trust their judgment or want them to have power over my life or to have them involved in my life. And that’s a simplification, also they are here and we all have to work something out.
Now, are rationalists reliably sane? Nope. But sometimes they are. A momentary lapse into reason can occur, and sometimes for an extended time, like hours or months or even years, and that’s exciting.
And also the culture is way better. Around these parts, it is odd not to be in touch enough with reality to have not used LLMs (or at least, if you haven’t done so, then you’ll have some good account of why, rather than it having not seemed worth trying). So the group-level incentives are toward being in touch with reality. If someone writes up an argument that you’re screwing up in some behavior or key part of your life, the expected thing to do is to respond with a counterargument, not dismiss them for being impolite. This is a force toward engaging with reality that most people do not experience.
I don’t know quite where I’m going, but felt an impulse to express some of this attitude toward most people vs rationalist.