From being on both sides of trying to give and get advice that affects S1, the only consistent thing I find works is what Ozy says, except you don’t work out one way to convey the insight, you work out many ways that might convey the insight, and different people will need different explanations. That is, you generally have to phrase the same idea many different ways, sometimes using different metaphors, to find a way to present it that will click for somebody (assuming the inferential distance is short enough that this is even possible).
From being on both sides of trying to give and get advice that affects S1, the only consistent thing I find works is what Ozy says, except you don’t work out one way to convey the insight, you work out many ways that might convey the insight, and different people will need different explanations. That is, you generally have to phrase the same idea many different ways, sometimes using different metaphors, to find a way to present it that will click for somebody (assuming the inferential distance is short enough that this is even possible).