It’s not evil or toxic or mean to get angry; why would it be? It’s a matter of how the anger is expressed and the context; it’s not automatically evil/toxic/mean. If you use it wrong, it’s mean. But anger is an appropriate response to bullying, at which point it’s just kinda Angry Neutral/Good rather than Angry Evil. You can get angry and manage self-control simultaneously. You can have conflicted feelings of love and hate for a person while also caring for them completely. Anger is just anger.
It’s not evil or toxic or mean to get angry; why would it be?It’s a matter of how the anger is expressed and the context; it’s not automatically evil/toxic/mean. If you use it wrong, it’s mean. But anger is an appropriate response to bullying, at which point it’s just kinda Angry Neutral/Good rather than Angry Evil. You can get angry and manage self-control simultaneously. You can have conflicted feelings of love and hate for a person while also caring for them completely. Anger is just anger.That doesn’t need to be a contradiction. The correlation can still hold.