Your example dialogue is very helpful for me to hopefully elucidate what I originally meant, and also tried to reference with the laundromat example
✨elucidate✨
It’s not unlike the classic male-female divide when discussing problems of “men want solutions, women want to be heard.” Recognizing this meta-game and playing it accordingly is a step towards lucidity, rather than a man always playing the “solution” game with his wife.
Alternate framing: the men’s stereotype is about solving the previous instance of the problem; the women’s stereotype is about solving/preventing the next instance =)
✨elucidate✨
Alternate framing: the men’s stereotype is about solving the previous instance of the problem; the women’s stereotype is about solving/preventing the next instance =)