Oh, sure. And in that case, such a person suddenly realizes that they WANT to cross that line. They’ll remember wanting to cross the line and reconsider when they’re calm.
It only gets to be a problem if someone’s line is drawn so far away that they never even get a hint that they might want to cross it, and so never reconsider. I have seen one case of that, and it lasted a few years. It is possible that was from trauma, and the limit contracted once she recovered. I do not think being more aggressive in tearing down the wall would have been any help.
Oh, sure. And in that case, such a person suddenly realizes that they WANT to cross that line. They’ll remember wanting to cross the line and reconsider when they’re calm.
It only gets to be a problem if someone’s line is drawn so far away that they never even get a hint that they might want to cross it, and so never reconsider. I have seen one case of that, and it lasted a few years. It is possible that was from trauma, and the limit contracted once she recovered. I do not think being more aggressive in tearing down the wall would have been any help.