if I’m in the closet about being bisexual, how is that an improvement over being heterosexual?
You don’t have to be in the closet with everyone. Just treat it as something personal that you only tell people once you know them and trust them enough, and you’ve gauged their reaction to casual mentions of bisexuality.
Agreed that avoiding keeping just most people from knowing about my relationship preferences isn’t as difficult as keeping everyone from knowing about them.
Of course, as above, even better is to be able to reveal whatever information about my relationship preferences I choose to reveal without fear of negative consequences.
You don’t have to be in the closet with everyone. Just treat it as something personal that you only tell people once you know them and trust them enough, and you’ve gauged their reaction to casual mentions of bisexuality.
Agreed that avoiding keeping just most people from knowing about my relationship preferences isn’t as difficult as keeping everyone from knowing about them.
Of course, as above, even better is to be able to reveal whatever information about my relationship preferences I choose to reveal without fear of negative consequences.